Breaking Up With Starbucks is Hard to Do

Happy National Pink Day Everyone!

As you all know from my previous post, my husband and I are on a one-month restaurant diet, giving up spending money at all dining establishments, including Starbucks (Gasp! Can this be true!). 

Well, yes it is and let me tell you, giving up Starbucks for a month is like breaking up with your best friend – and that is hard to do. It’s been 9 days, and counting, since I had my last Starbucks. Not a day goes by that I don’t think about running to the green mermaid with open arms. Does she miss me as much as I miss her? Now I know how smokers feel when they are trying to quit.

A sad day in Starbucks land...

A sad day in Starbucks land...

BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO

Nearly every day of the week I would pass by at least 3 Starbucks on my way to work. I would not say that I felt tempted, because Starbucks was not a treat, it was a necessity in the morning for me. Now, I still pass by those same three Starbucks, whimpering a little as I fail to turn into that familiar parking lot. The first few days were extremely difficult, with extra stress at work combined with less and less sleep at night. During business meetings, I would see team members with Starbucks cups and think they were tormenting me. I seemed to want Starbucks all the time, but that feeling became less and less prominent by the end of the first week.

TRYING TO COPE WITH A STARBUCKS LOSS

On one tough morning, I even tried replacing my frozen frappuccino  with the bottled liquid version you can buy at the grocery store. But, who am I kidding, it’s just not same. It’s almost like a tease, they make you think you are getting a frap by putting the name on the bottle, but then give you a second-rate drink – kind of a bait and switch.

Also, my husband I would frequent our local Barnes and Noble, which happily, and quite conveniently sells Starbucks’ addictive java concoctions. We used to love going there to just be among the books and, of course, enjoy a hot chocolate and a double chocolate chunk cookie. Although I have been to that same B&N in the last week, I passed right by the cafe without stopping or looking in the general vicinity of the counter. I wonder if the people behind the counter, who know me by face, are sneering at me because I’m not making my usual stop??

Fueling my Starbucks addiction at Barnes and Noble Cafe...

Fueling my Starbucks addiction at Barnes and Noble Cafe...

CAN A BREAK UP HAVE BENEFITS?

Ok, enough griping. I’ve been telling you all about the hardships of giving up Starbucks, but now I want to share the good things about breaking my Starbucks habit. 

To compensate for my loss, I’ve been trying to replace my Starbucks habit with other, healthier habits. Before, I would eat breakfast at home, then stop at Starbucks on my way to work. Getting the Starbucks was automatic even though I wasn’t very hungry after breakfast. Now, I get to work a little earlier and treat myself to a more relaxed, slow breakfast of Greek yogurt with gourmet – but less expensive than Starbucks – tea, or something equally as yummy.

A lovely pot of Taylors of Harrogate English Breakfast tea

Taylors of Harrogate English Breakfast tea - A Starbucks replacement.

And, because I’m not eating breakfast at home, followed by a “second breakfast” at Starbucks, I don’t crave sugar for the rest of the day like I used to. And, those yummy giant chocolate chunk cookies I used to buy at B&N have been replaced with smaller, but still oh-so-yummy homemade oatmeal chocolate chip cookies. With these new habits, I’m actually saving more than a few dollars, a few hundred calories each day, and have lost a little weight in the process. But, unfortunately, when you make 4 dozen cookies and eat them in 5 days, it kind of has the opposite effect on your weight. 

Now, for those of you who are still addicted to Starbucks and wonder why I’m putting myself through this grief – take heart! I haven’t given up Starbucks completely. If someone were to offer to buy me a tall mocha frap – I would be happy to oblige in his or her generosity.

Vive le Beret! French Hat Gains Popularity During Recession

Bonjour everyone! What a glorious morning! After my energizing run I headed inside for a fiber-packed breakfast:

I started my day with Kashi Go Lean Crunch!

Kashi Go Lean cereal: a very high fiber way to start the day!

Had a little Kashi Go Lean Crunch – packed with 8g of fiber per cup -whoa! – with a few slices of a very ripe pear on the side. Gotta love that fiber.

YEAH FOR THE BERET!

While perusing the Internet during breakfast (I know I should really NOT multitask during breakfast, it’s so not French) I came across some very exciting news. The Telegraph, a major newspaper in Britain, recently reported that the French beret is making a comeback. Yeah! I’m so excited because I’ve always liked berets. Really, from the time I was a little girl I imagined that I was the storybook character, Madeline, sporting a yellow beret and walking around Paris with my classmates (ok, so she didn’t really wear a beret, but she was French and did wear a yellow hat that I thought was a beret).

The French beret is back in style!

The French beret is back in style!

Apparently, the French have taken it upon themselves to start the beret craze once more, but not merely as a fashion statement. According to the article, the French are wearing their berets to emphasize their French heritage: 

Following the collapse of the Anglo-Saxon economy young people are harking back to their roots, showing they’re proud to be French.

Some manufacturers are even claiming that beret sales have doubled since the start of the credit crunch.

BERET – A FRENCH STEREOTYPE

Berets are the somewhat stereotypical French accessory, historically worn by both men and women in France. I think that the mushroom-top hat became so associated with the French that it eventually became cliché and even a fashion faux pas to wear it outside of France. Even then, if you were an American wearing a beret in France, this fashion statement could been seen as a mocking gesture to French culture.

Even French men can wear a beret and look good - well, sort of....

Even French men can wear a beret and look good - well, sort of....

Like many trends of the day, berets seem to fall in and out of fashion – sometimes being worn by supermodels and other times only elderly women and diehard Francophiles. Classic film stars - Brigitte Bardot and Greta Garbo popularized berets in the 30s and beatnik poets did the same in the late 50s early 60s. Berets came back in style for a very short time in the 90s when Monica Lewinsky was pictured in one with former President Clinton – although I’m not sure how much this did to improve the beret’s reputation.

MY FIRST BERET

Still, about 10 years ago, I ventured into the Gap and actually saw a beret on display. This was the first time I had seen a beret in a very long time (outside of France in Epcot). I absolutely loved the little light brown wool beret and immediately plopped down the money to buy it. A friend who I was with thought I was crazy because berets were “really not in style”. What he meant was, berets weren’t his style – but they were and still are definitely my style. After 10 years, I still have my first beret, although I have to admit it is slightly smaller than I remember and slighlty more “worn” looking than I would like. I think it’s time for a new one!

So, thank you France for being proud to be French and wearing your berets with pride. Even if they are only back in style for a season, I am very glad that they are. Now, if I could only find a nice lightweight beret for summer!

Ciao!

The One-Month Restaurant Diet: 5 Reasons to Stop Dining Out

My hubby and I are starting a month-long experiment – to not spend any of our own money on dining out. So, from June 15 through July 14, we have agreed to not spend our own money on Starbucks (ouch!) or any dining establishment for any meal for any reason, not even take-out. 

Why are we putting ourselves through this luxury food diet? Well, there are 5 main reasons:

Frequent dining out can drain your piggy bank.

Frequent dining out can drain your piggy bank.

  1. We spend WAY too much money on going out to eat. On average, for the last year, we’ve spent about $475 a month (that’s $110 a week!)  a month on outside-the-home dining, and that’s in addition to groceries. That’s $5,700 a year – easily two vacations or a trip to Europe!

    Dining al fresco - an alternative to dining out.

    Dining al fresco - an alternative to dining out.

  2. We want to be more European. According to a recent report, Europeans are the least likely to venture out for a meal, with more than half saying they only go out to eat once a month. Like the French, most Europeans prefer to eat meals prepared at home with friends and family – a la the French lifestyle. Maybe that’s why they are so thin! For many Americans, eating out every day for every meal is just fine because they won’t so much as boil water or fry an egg. As for my husband and I, we like to cook and, for the most part, are pretty good at it. I’m sure after a month of cooking all meals at home, we’ll get even better.         
    No more daily trips to the green mermaid!

    No more daily trips to the green mermaid!

     

  3. We want to break our bad habits. Time or lack of it, is a major factor in why my husband and I revert to restaurant meals. We often find ourselves grabbing a “quick” lunch out, or being too tired or ill prepared to make dinner, resulting in a restaurant outing. Eating out seems to be a very easy and comfortable alternative for us. Aside from this, we are huge Starbucks fanatics. Whether it’s frappuccinos, iced tea, hot chocolate, or sweets, one of us would frequent the green mermaid at least once a day. It’s fine when you walk into a place where “everybody knows your name”, I just wish I didn’t hear the sound of a cash register when they are saying it. 
  4. We want to make dining out “special” again. We dine out so often (for work and for fun) that eating out just isn’t a treat like it used to be for us. It has become ritualistic and even a source of argument as we decide where to go to eat. Really, who wants to drop $50-75 on a meal and not really enjoy it? Not me – anymore!
    Dining in allows more control over quality and quantity of food.

    Dining in allows more control over quality and quantity of food.

     

  5. We want to eat healthier at our own price. When we eat out, we are never really sure what is going into our food. Restaurants claim they use the “freshest” foods and “quality” ingredients, but the only people who know if this is true are the people who work there. So, in essence, we could be spending $50 a meal on highly processed food loaded with sugar and salt, when we could have prepared a much healthier, and better tasting, meal at home. It also is difficult to control portion sizes when dining out. Although we’ve tried splitting dishes and foregoing an appetizer, this is just not working for us (especially for my husband’s waistline). By eating at home, we can control what ingredients go into our meals and how much is prepared and consumed. 

When all is said and done, we hope to feel better about what we are eating, save a little money, and become healthier in the process.

Stay tuned to see if we remained steadfast or if we cracked under the pressure of the Starbucks’ sign!

Shopaholic Confessions: Affordable European Fashions in the US

Just like American women who are feeling the credit crunch, British and European women have been forced to curb their spending habits. Yet, the difference is, British and European women will go to great lengths to avoid looking like they are on a spending diet. For them, it is still possible to have a stylish, ultra chic wardrobe during a recession – it just takes patience and a bit of smart shopping, knowing where to go to find the best fashion on a scant budget.

Europe is known for high-end fashion designers as Prada and Gucci, but the EU has also given the world, including the US, many mid-range fashions that are affordable for women with a more humble budget. So, even if you’re not a savvy British recessionista, you can still find affordable and chic European clothes in the United States. 

Whether you’re going for a more street style look or just want to add a few pieces to your already Euro chic wardrobe, check out my top picks for budget-friendly Euro fashion right here in the US.  

Bistro Chic Top 5 Picks for European Styles in the United States

  1. Topshop - This wildly popular British chain is full of casual women’s clothes in the latest styles, from street style to funky and fresh, by top designers, including model Kate Moss. Although known all over Britain and Europe, Topshop is just now making it’s way to the US with the first store opening in New York city in Fall 2008. If you’re not headed to New York anytime soon, check out Topshop US online.
  2. MNG by Mango – This Spanish clothing chain is based in Barcelona but has stores all over the world, including many major US cities like Los Angeles, Boston, Dallas, and, of course, New York. This mid-range store offers fun and flirty styles in the latest Spanish and European fashions. The store even offers an exclusive clothing line by Spanish actress Penelope Cruz.            

    For the latest Euro Chic styles, try Spanish fashion retailer Zara.

    For the latest Euro Chic styles, try Spanish fashion retailer Zara.

  3. Zara – Along with Mango, Zara is one of the most popular women’s stores in Spain and in Europe. And, thanks to the chain’s worldwide popularity, Zara can now be found in major US cities like Chicago, New York, Washington, DC, Philadelphia, and Orlando. Like Mango, Zara offers great casual and professional staples, like soft sweaters, slouchy pants, and designer t-shirts, all with a Euro-Spanish twist. 
  4. H&M – The Swedes sure know how to do retail in a BIG way. In the 1980′s, Sweden brought us Ikea -the ginormous big box store full of trendy home goods. And, nearly a decade ago, Swedish fashion giant H&M took the US by storm, opening its first store in New York in 2000. Now with stores across the US, H&M has become a standard in young women’s fashions. H&M offers many (and I mean MANY -the stores are generally much larger than typical boutique stores) of Europe’s fashion trends, but with a mix of American favorites like jeans, trousers, and oxford shirts. 
  5. Anthropologie – Without question, this is one of my favorite stores to browse and to shop. Although this chain is actually based in the US (run by Urban Outfitters, Inc) the store sells high-end casual women’s fashions reflective of the British and European styles of today. The clothes have been described as having a romantic whimsy about them, but with a British and bohemian flair. Although more expensive than clothes you’d find in the other stores I’ve mentioned, Anthropologie’s very unique and feminine styles (especially in the lingerie section) are truly inspiring, as is the jewelry, and well worth the extra money. Anthropologie also offers a very nice selection of home furnishings, decor, and books all with a British/European feel. Don’t miss the sales at this store, you’re sure to find a few reasonably priced “gems” to add to your wardrobe or your home.

On a side note, if you’re lucky enough to have one of the above stores in your area, keep tabs on the store’s sale events and bargain seasons. Getting to know the sales staff doesn’t hurt either. They may be more likely to tell you when the next big sale is coming.

Even when shopping at the affordable stores, be cautious about buying extremely trendy items (aka this year’s jumpsuit), that you may wear for one season (or 2-3 times) and realize you made a huge mistake. Instead, look for classic styles updated with a European touch. And, there’s no need to invest in an entire wardrobe. Just adding a few new pieces to a Spring or Summer wardrobe can make your old standbys look new again. 

Still wondering if you can afford new clothes this season? Remember that British and European women know that even on a downsized budget, there’s no need to sacrifice style. And in times of recession, having your own distinct style (or any style for that matter) can make all the difference in the world.

Recessionista Diaries: Affordable Luxuries

British women buy more make-up than anyone. In fact, a new survey shows British women would spend their last £10 (about $14) on a tube of lipstick, ahead of food, clothing, and other daily essentials, suggesting that this type of purchase gives women a cheap shopping fix, especially in a tough economy. Even during times of recession, all women seem the find money to splurge – particularly on little things like makeup.

Lipstick: An affordable luxury

Lipstick: An affordable luxury

This shopping behavior, dubbed the Lipstick Effect, has become more common in recent decades with the ebb and flow of the economy. The term suggests that during times of recession, women who can’t afford typical expensive luxuries, like jewelry or designer handbags, will opt for less expensive ones like lipstick or nail polish, all to make them feel glamorous and boost their mood during times when many people are feeling the inevitable squeeze in their pocketbooks.

Ladies, our humble salaries may not afford us a Kate Spade bag or another pair of Jimmy Choos, but we’ll be damned if we can’t buy a $10 lipstick at Ulta. I mean, a girl’s gotta shop, right? If your shopaholic personality is waking up to a recessionista reality, try indulging in a few of these harmless pick-me-ups. They can provide an instant mood boost for a girl on any budget.

For less than $15 you can afford the following luxuries:

  • Under $15 - 
    • Victoria’s Secret underwear
    • A luxurious hand towel in whatever color makes you happy
    • Comfy slippers
    • A bouquet of flowers
    • Fancy bar soaps
  • Under $10
    • A rockin’ hot lipstick from Sephora
    • Paperback romance novel
    • OPI nail polish
    • Jeweled hair clips
    • Tin of gourmet tea or box of candy
    • A decent Chardonnay at Trader Joe’s
  • Under $5
    • Travel size Bath and Body Works hand cream or body wash
    • Scented candles
    • One wine glass from Crate and Barrel
  • Under $3
    • Tall Starbucks latte
    • Magazine
    • Cool notebook
    • Pair of argyle socks
  • Under $1
    • Your new favorite song downloaded from itunes
    • Shower loofah

Obviously, all of these things are those you do not have to have. But, satisfying your urge to splurge with these petits luxes may help you through the hard times. And, as Estée Lauder famously said :

“When things are bad, if a woman has a new perfume and a little lipstick, she feels like a queen.”

Cheers! I’m on off to buy a new lipstick…

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