Vive le Beret! French Hat Gains Popularity During Recession

Bonjour everyone! What a glorious morning! After my energizing run I headed inside for a fiber-packed breakfast:

I started my day with Kashi Go Lean Crunch!

Kashi Go Lean cereal: a very high fiber way to start the day!

Had a little Kashi Go Lean Crunch – packed with 8g of fiber per cup -whoa! – with a few slices of a very ripe pear on the side. Gotta love that fiber.

YEAH FOR THE BERET!

While perusing the Internet during breakfast (I know I should really NOT multitask during breakfast, it’s so not French) I came across some very exciting news. The Telegraph, a major newspaper in Britain, recently reported that the French beret is making a comeback. Yeah! I’m so excited because I’ve always liked berets. Really, from the time I was a little girl I imagined that I was the storybook character, Madeline, sporting a yellow beret and walking around Paris with my classmates (ok, so she didn’t really wear a beret, but she was French and did wear a yellow hat that I thought was a beret).

The French beret is back in style!

The French beret is back in style!

Apparently, the French have taken it upon themselves to start the beret craze once more, but not merely as a fashion statement. According to the article, the French are wearing their berets to emphasize their French heritage: 

Following the collapse of the Anglo-Saxon economy young people are harking back to their roots, showing they’re proud to be French.

Some manufacturers are even claiming that beret sales have doubled since the start of the credit crunch.

BERET – A FRENCH STEREOTYPE

Berets are the somewhat stereotypical French accessory, historically worn by both men and women in France. I think that the mushroom-top hat became so associated with the French that it eventually became cliché and even a fashion faux pas to wear it outside of France. Even then, if you were an American wearing a beret in France, this fashion statement could been seen as a mocking gesture to French culture.

Even French men can wear a beret and look good - well, sort of....

Even French men can wear a beret and look good - well, sort of....

Like many trends of the day, berets seem to fall in and out of fashion – sometimes being worn by supermodels and other times only elderly women and diehard Francophiles. Classic film stars - Brigitte Bardot and Greta Garbo popularized berets in the 30s and beatnik poets did the same in the late 50s early 60s. Berets came back in style for a very short time in the 90s when Monica Lewinsky was pictured in one with former President Clinton – although I’m not sure how much this did to improve the beret’s reputation.

MY FIRST BERET

Still, about 10 years ago, I ventured into the Gap and actually saw a beret on display. This was the first time I had seen a beret in a very long time (outside of France in Epcot). I absolutely loved the little light brown wool beret and immediately plopped down the money to buy it. A friend who I was with thought I was crazy because berets were “really not in style”. What he meant was, berets weren’t his style – but they were and still are definitely my style. After 10 years, I still have my first beret, although I have to admit it is slightly smaller than I remember and slighlty more “worn” looking than I would like. I think it’s time for a new one!

So, thank you France for being proud to be French and wearing your berets with pride. Even if they are only back in style for a season, I am very glad that they are. Now, if I could only find a nice lightweight beret for summer!

Ciao!

The One-Month Restaurant Diet: 5 Reasons to Stop Dining Out

My hubby and I are starting a month-long experiment – to not spend any of our own money on dining out. So, from June 15 through July 14, we have agreed to not spend our own money on Starbucks (ouch!) or any dining establishment for any meal for any reason, not even take-out. 

Why are we putting ourselves through this luxury food diet? Well, there are 5 main reasons:

Frequent dining out can drain your piggy bank.

Frequent dining out can drain your piggy bank.

  1. We spend WAY too much money on going out to eat. On average, for the last year, we’ve spent about $475 a month (that’s $110 a week!)  a month on outside-the-home dining, and that’s in addition to groceries. That’s $5,700 a year – easily two vacations or a trip to Europe!

    Dining al fresco - an alternative to dining out.

    Dining al fresco - an alternative to dining out.

  2. We want to be more European. According to a recent report, Europeans are the least likely to venture out for a meal, with more than half saying they only go out to eat once a month. Like the French, most Europeans prefer to eat meals prepared at home with friends and family – a la the French lifestyle. Maybe that’s why they are so thin! For many Americans, eating out every day for every meal is just fine because they won’t so much as boil water or fry an egg. As for my husband and I, we like to cook and, for the most part, are pretty good at it. I’m sure after a month of cooking all meals at home, we’ll get even better.         
    No more daily trips to the green mermaid!

    No more daily trips to the green mermaid!

     

  3. We want to break our bad habits. Time or lack of it, is a major factor in why my husband and I revert to restaurant meals. We often find ourselves grabbing a “quick” lunch out, or being too tired or ill prepared to make dinner, resulting in a restaurant outing. Eating out seems to be a very easy and comfortable alternative for us. Aside from this, we are huge Starbucks fanatics. Whether it’s frappuccinos, iced tea, hot chocolate, or sweets, one of us would frequent the green mermaid at least once a day. It’s fine when you walk into a place where “everybody knows your name”, I just wish I didn’t hear the sound of a cash register when they are saying it. 
  4. We want to make dining out “special” again. We dine out so often (for work and for fun) that eating out just isn’t a treat like it used to be for us. It has become ritualistic and even a source of argument as we decide where to go to eat. Really, who wants to drop $50-75 on a meal and not really enjoy it? Not me – anymore!
    Dining in allows more control over quality and quantity of food.

    Dining in allows more control over quality and quantity of food.

     

  5. We want to eat healthier at our own price. When we eat out, we are never really sure what is going into our food. Restaurants claim they use the “freshest” foods and “quality” ingredients, but the only people who know if this is true are the people who work there. So, in essence, we could be spending $50 a meal on highly processed food loaded with sugar and salt, when we could have prepared a much healthier, and better tasting, meal at home. It also is difficult to control portion sizes when dining out. Although we’ve tried splitting dishes and foregoing an appetizer, this is just not working for us (especially for my husband’s waistline). By eating at home, we can control what ingredients go into our meals and how much is prepared and consumed. 

When all is said and done, we hope to feel better about what we are eating, save a little money, and become healthier in the process.

Stay tuned to see if we remained steadfast or if we cracked under the pressure of the Starbucks’ sign!

Citron Pressé: 5 steps to French Lemonade

WEEK 1: On the Path to Finding My Kefi

Bonjour everyone! This week, I brought a little of France right into my own home – and what a treat it was! I decided to make the most of the wonderfully yellow lemons I bought last week and make homemade Citron Pressé – the French version of lemonade. Yes, if you are lucky enough to travel to France and decide to order a lemonade, you will actually be served a carbonated drink – think Sprite. However, if you order a citron pressé, you will receive what we Americans know as good old fashioned lemonade. 

To make fresh citron presse, start with bright, sunny lemons!

To make fresh citron presse, start with bright, sunny lemons!

Although citron pressé will, no doubt, taste better in France – because nearly everything tastes better when you’re in Europe – my Bistro Chic citron pressé was positively yummy, especially because it was a warm day.

Fresh cistron presse (lemonade) - sweet!

Fresh citron presse (lemonade) - sweet!

To make my Bistro Chic citron pressé, follow these 5 simple steps:

  1. Start with a bright, yellow lemon and juice it until it is practically dry (no seeds of course)
  2. Fill a drink shaker (such as a martini shaker – because Lord knows I never use it to make an actual martini!) with ice all the way to the top.
  3. Add lemon juice and 3 splenda packets to the shaker. (I have tried making it with sugar and other artificial sweeteners but splenda seems to taste the best in this drink)
  4. Using the juicer cup that held the fresh-squeezed lemon juice, fill the shaker with cold water nearly to the top.
  5. Put the shaker top on and shake vigorously, until well blended and frothy.

Lemon arrangement

All you have to do now is pour your new favorite summer drink into a frosty glass and pucker up!

This recipe makes 2 cups depending on the size of your shaker, but you can easily triple or quadruple the recipe to fill a pitcher.

Unlike money, lemons do grown on trees.

Unlike money, lemons do grow on trees.

Now, don’t you wish you had a lemon tree right in your own backyard?

Au revoir!

My Kefi – Lost and Found

GREEK LESSONS

Today, I heard a very short but poignant interview with Nia Vardalos, aka the lead actress in My Big Fat Greek Wedding. She is starring in a brand new movie, My Life in Ruins. The movie is about a woman – a tour guide in Greece – who has lost her “kefi” or her mojo – the essence that makes her want to really live life to the fullest. During the interview, Nia mentioned that the movie may strike a cord with viewers now more than ever. She pointed out that with the recession, poor housing market, and unemployment, it is quite apparent that many in the US have lost their mojo.

My life may not be "in ruins", but finding my kefi would be nice.

My life may not be "in ruins", but finding my kefi would be nice.

Wow! That’s me, I thought. Don’t get me wrong, I definitely do not feel like my life is “in ruins”. In fact, I really can’t complain about too much in my life right now, but having to be on a budget and cut back on things that I love to do (ie. travel), brings me down more often than I’d like. Sometimes I feel like my own kefi is just stuck in limbo – I know it’s out there – I have pictures to prove that I had it, I just have to find a way to navigate through the kefi customs department to get it back. And, I know I’m not the only one who feels this way. For instance, a friend of a friend recently became enamored with Brazil after traveling their twice. In the course of a few months, she decided to rent out her condo and move to Brazil for a year with a friend. Now that girl’s got kefi!!

NEED KEFI, WILL TRAVEL

My lonely luggage...

My lonely luggage...

So, after having this revelation, I decided it was time to take action. If I couldn’t find my kefi again, no one was going to do it for me. But how do I get it back? Although I have a few ideas, Europe seems to be top on my list of places where my kefi could be vacationing. Yes, I’m pretty certain that living in a different country, even just for a few months, would help bring back my mojo, but right now, that idea is only a fleeting dream. Naturally, the alternative would be to just visit Europe and other countries. Alas, my meager budget and career responsibilities will not allow me to travel abroad anytime soon. And so, I wondered, if I can’t get to France or Spain, how can I bring their culture and lifestyle here?

IT’S ALL PART OF THE PLAN…

Now, I am a huge advocate of living a European lifestyle in the US – or as close to it as you can get. But, I don’t always practice what I preach. So, as of today I pledge (to myself of course because to anyone else – except maybe my Brazil-bound friend – it would seem neurotic, silly, or just plain strange) that I will do at least one thing a week that reflects the current or past lifestyles of Europeans or – very simply – something that reminds me of Europe. I originally wanted to do one thing a day, but figured I could work up to that – a girl’s got to have goals, right?

These lifestyle changes don’t have to be huge, they merely need to meet three requirements:

  1. Reflect European culture
  2. Fit within my budget and current responsibilities
  3. Most importantly, take me one step closer to finding my kefi

I’m sure in my creative mind, I will think of many things that could fit my criteria, but I’m open to suggestions! If you have a great idea for a way that I can experience a little bit of Europe in my daily life – please send it my way.

Stay tuned for future entries on my path to finding my kefi...

Stay tuned for future entries on my path to finding my kefi...

The Classic Trench Coat: Not Just for French Women and Secret Agents

A classic trench coat is a MUST for every woman's wardrobe.

A classic trench coat is a MUST for every woman's wardrobe.

For years, style editors have pointed out that French women, with their very distinct and classic style, have elevated the trench coat to its never-ending chic status. And for years, I wondered, how can millions of French women – and secret agents – be wrong? 

A WARDROBE ICON

Trench coats have become iconic among French women, rivaling berets and striped boat-neck shirts. The British have also been known to wear high quality, chic trench coats, but more out of necessity than anything. I mean, when you live in a place where rain is always in the forecast, a coat becomes part of your everyday wardrobe and who wants to wear drab coat everyday? It’s almost as if the Brits wear these fashionable trenchies in pure defiance of mother nature. They remind her that, with the right trench coat, you can be sexy and practical at the same time. 

STYLE LESSONS FROM THE TRENCHES

Although the French may have put trench coats on the map when it comes to style, what I learned about trench coats actually came from my mother. Every Christmas, my family would attend midnight mass on Christmas eve at the church where I also attended school. I remember asking my mother on several of these occasions what she intended to wear – to which she replied “I’m just going to wear my trench coat.” Now, to many, this may imply she would ONLY be wearing her trench coat. But to her, this meant that what she wore underneath really didn’t matter when she was wearing her high quality trench coat and did not plan on taking it off. How can she get away with this, I used to think. I would stress for hours on what I would wear to mass – the place to see and be seen for my middle school class – and she would waltz in wearing a plain jane outfit, covered up by her coat and navy paisley scarf. All of this time, I think I secretly envied her that, even without trying, she looked as good, if not better, than any of the mothers in the congregation. 

MY FIRST TRENCH COAT

As a young adult, I’ve always admired a nice winter coat or stylish fall jacket, but for years, I had shunned trench coats because I was not going to be just like my mother. However, in my early 20s, I was shopping with my mother before moving to the big city to take on a new job. She suggested I buy a trench coat for work. I, of course, laughed this off knowing her history with and fondness of trench coats. But after trying a few on, I realized that the trench made me look put together, and even more business-like, and very stylish. I ended up buying my first-ever basic black trench coat with my mother and have worn it for at least a decade.

FROM BLAND TO BOMBSHELL IN AN INSTANT

After many rounds at the dry cleaners, my first trench coat has started to look a bit worn and less fresh than desired. Earlier this year, I decided it was time to venture, once more, into trenches in search of a more updated version of the classic trench.

In mid-March, I purchased one of the most stylish coats I have ever owned – a strawberry-colored Gap trench coat. Although the coat came in the standard beige and navy, I decided to branch out from my typical bland and go for something a little more splashy – strawberry red. I have since considered this trench to have awesome style power beyond a normal black trench coat. I am not a flashy person by nature, but whether I am wearing jeans or a summer suit, the coat seems to draw attention wherever I go. 

I have worn the trench several times, including on business meetings and casual outings. I have received no fewer than 6 compliments on the trench in the first month of wearing it, including one from a Starbucks barista who said she remembered me because of my “fun” bright red trench coat. The biggest compliment I received was from a “higher up” at work. She said she loved my new trench and asked where I bought it. A few weeks later, she bought the same trench, but in a different color. I have to say – I still like mine better!

NOT JUST FOR SECRET AGENTS

Compliments aside, owning a colorful yet classic trench coat can even create a whole new persona – making you feel much more than your typical self. When I pair the trench with my large, bug-eye, black sunglasses and my creamy Aveda lipstick, I, somehow, feel like a Bond-girl and a popparazzi-avoiding celebrity – a la Katie Holmes or Victoria Beckham – all rolled into one. Now that’s style power!

As you can see, I was not always a fan of the trench coat. But, over the years I have come to love this timeless wardrobe piece and even consider it one of the top items every woman should have in her closet. But, whether your goal is to look like a distressed dame from a Humphrey Bogart film or simply a chic socialite, add a classic trench to your look and you’re sure to stand out from the crowd.