Bistro Chic

A Girl's Journey to Live the European Lifestyle




Happy Birthday Coco Chanel

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Gabrielle “Coco” Chanel was born on this day in 1883 in Samur, France. Many people know Coco for her timeless perfume – Chanel No. 5, but did you also know that:

  • She was raised by nuns who taught her to sew.
  • She was given the name “Coco” while working as a singer. The name is a shortened version of “cocotte”, the French word for ‘kept woman’.
  • She started out selling hats.
  • She had a relationship with a German military officer during the German occupation of France during WWII.
  • She popularized wearing multiple strands of pearls, tailored suit jackets, and the little back dress – all of which are still popular today.

Can’t afford a Chanel suit jacket or expensive eau de toilette? Opt for a less expensive Chanel staple – the Rouge Allure lipstick!

Happy Birthday and Joyeux Anniversaire Coco Chanel!


Laver's Law of Fashion

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When Scott and I went to London a few years ago, we were fortunate enough to visit the Victoria and Albert Museum. I remember it was our last day in Europe and we had walked around London all day long wanting to soak in every last bit of history. We happened upon the V&A by accident. We weren’t even sure what it was at first or if it was open. Come to find out, it was open until 5 PM. We looked at our watches – 4:15 PM!!! Well, it’s now or never, so we headed in. Because we only had 45 minutes to peruse, we decided to split up for 20 minutes. He headed into the paintings area and I into …what else? The fashion and jewelry area of course!

Because it was so late, I was the only one in the fashion history exhibit at the time – well, except for the guard. I spent my full 20 minutes in awe of the beautiful dresses from the 1800′s until present day. The detail in the clothes and how they were preserved and showcased were all amazing. As I ambled through, I couldn’t help but think how styles have changed over the years. From very conservative long wool dresses in the early 19th century, to flapper dresses in the early 20th century, and mini skirts and halter tops in the 70s. This made me wonder – how did fashion trends start way back then? How did people adopt them and why?

Ironically, the former curator of the Victoria and Albert Museum, James Laver (1899-1975), was also a fashion historian. Laver was curator there from the 1930s through the 50s, in charge of prints and drawings. However, his claim to fame has always been fashion. He could actually look at a very old photo and place it within a few years of the time period, just by the clothes the people where wearing. He was also a master at knowing how styles came in and out of fashion. In fact, major department stores bought and sold by Laver’s Law of Fashion, the idea that fashions all have a timeline or lifecycle trend, which could somewhat predict what styles would be hot in the coming year and which would be passé. Take a look…

Laver’s Law of Fashion

Indecent                            10 years before its time

Shameless                          5 years before its time

Daring                                 1 year before its time

Smart                                   Current fashion

Dowdy                                  1 year after its time

Hideous                              10 years after its time

Ridiculous                          20 years after its time

Amusing                             30 years after its time

Quaint                                  50 years after its time

Charming                            70 years after its time

Romantic                           100 years after its time

Beautiful                             150 years after its time

This law applies only to women’s fashion. For, unlike women’s fashion that drastically changed year after year, Laver observed that men’s fashion stayed pretty consistent, with ever so subtle changes through the decades.

As you can see ladies, if you hold onto something long enough, it may take on heirloom status. As they say, whatever is old becomes new again – just give it time. But, in case you’re wondering whether to hold onto your Ugg boots and your jumpsuit – keep in mind, they were never that stylish the first time around.


Audrey Hepburn's Little Black Dress Tops Fashion List

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Legendary actress Audrey Hepburn may be gone, but her beauty and style are hardly forgotten. Much of what the world remembers of Audrey’s style is associated with what she wore on the big screen. Who could forget her simple but gorgeous dresses in Sabrina, her bright white frock with matching hat in My Fair Lady, and of course, the little black dress in Breakfast at Tiffany’s. And what girl didn’t want to be Audrey after that movie?

Audrey’s iconic style has been immortalized once more as that same little black dress makes the top of the fashion list as the greatest female outfit on the silver screen. Her My Fair Lady dress makes the same list coming in at #6 in the top ten. Other outfits that make the shortlist include:

  • Marilyn Monroe’s white dress from The Seven Year Itch
  • Keira Knightley’s green dress from Atonement
  • Ursula Andress’s bikini from Dr. No
  • Kate Hudson’s gold dress from How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
  • Olivia Newton John’s skin-tight pants from Grease
  • Raquel Welch’s animal skin bikini from One Million Years BC
  • Nicole Kidman’s red corset from Moulin Rouge
  • Sarah Jessica Parker’s wedding dress from Sex and the City

My guess is that the little black dress made the top of the list because it is simple, versatile, elegant, and timeless – all classic elements of French style. Thank goodness too, because, can you really picture yourself in skin-tight, shiny black pants when you’re 50! Hmm, before you answer that, ask yourself – what would Audrey do?

Ciao!


British Women: Head Over Heels For Shoes

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Not only are British women crazy about their handbags, but they are also head over heels for their shoes! A recent survey of 2,000 British women shows that the average British woman has at least 17 pairs of shoes. The survey also revealed some interesting tidbits on British shoe habits.

According to the British shoe survey:

  • British women report spending 2/3 of their time in heels
  • Almost 50% report buying shoes on impulse
  • 70% admit buying shoes they’ve never worn
  • Nearly 50% report buying shoes after spotting “must-haves” in a shop window
  • 30% report they’ve bought shoes simply because they liked the color
  • 16% report they’ve bought shoes to look good for a date
  • 10% admit to owning more than 30 pairs

Now, 17 pairs of shoes may seem like a drop in the proverbial shoe bucket to Carrie Bradshaw-loving Americans. However, it’s actually not too far off from American shoe habits. In fact, a 2007 Consumer Reports survey revealed that the average American woman owns 19 pairs of shoes.

I’ve never considered myself a shoe person. Don’t get me wrong, I like shoes, but I don’t go overboard. However, after actually counting my shoes, I realized that I have 25 pairs of shoes!!!  So obviously my personal shoe perception is way off because I have more than the average shoes for both British and American women. I also realized that I only wear 5-8 of these shoes on a regular basis. Hmm, time to do a little shoe-thinning!

Ciao!


Your Sense of Style

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Style Attitude

Famous French designer Coco Chanel once said, style never goes out of fashion. As you’ve probably guessed from the theme of my blog, I love European styles, particularly the French style. And, as I mentioned before, French style is not only about the clothes you are wearing, but it’s about how you wear them. Some women, whether they have bad attitudes, are depressed, or are just plain nasty, can’t pull off the most flattering LBD (little black dress). Yet others can wear a navy tee shirt, khakis, and ballet flats with confidence and a bit of charm, and their style-meter goes through the roof.

In the past year, I’ve been trying to weed through my wardrobe, donating items that don’t fit, don’t flatter, or are simply too dated or worn to wear again. Using this strategy, I’ve easily given away 3-4 huge bags of clothes, including some very expensive, designer styles. After donating at least 1/3 of my wardrobe, I opted to slowly add in new pieces to reflect a more distinct style – my style.

What’s Your Style?

But then I thought, what is my style?? Am I preppy? Casual? Modern? Retro? Well, I’m definitely not retro unless you count me jumping for joy when The Times London reported that wide-leg trousers were back in style again. In looking at what was left of my recently thinned-out threads, I noticed a pattern. Lots of trousers, khakis, study solid-color long and short sleeve tees, few floral and/or fancy pieces, and a handful of well-tailored blazers. All of these pieces are those that have stood the test of time, being easily dressed up with a bit of bling, or dressed down with denim. But, the most important thing about these pieces is that I feel great in all of them – again, confidence in your clothes and your own skin goes a LONG way.

In thinking about my style once more, I came across a new Bistro Chic site fave – Shabby Apple. Interestingly enough, Shabby Apple has just released a brand new French clothing line for the Spring season – ooh la la – a fitting name for a French clothing line! I’ve never purchased anything from Shabby Apple but that doesn’t stop me from drooling over the amazing styles. Think back to when you smelled ice cream for the first time as a child – you didn’t know what it was but you knew you wanted some. Immediately, when I discovered this site, I thought – I have to buy something – anything. So many ice cream flavors, so little money.

It may take me until the end of the year to buy something from the site, but in the meantime, I’m having fun using Shabby Apple’s nifty style widget. Take the quiz and get to know your own style. What’s my style? Classic of course! Ciao!


Kate Moss Goes Grey for Paris Fashion Week

During Paris Fashion Week in late January, British supermodel Kate Moss had everyone talking. Not because of her overly slender figure or her catwalking abilities. But rather, it was her grey hair that left reporters and onlookers in a tizzy.

Kate Moss goes grey for Paris Fashion Week 2010


That’s right, the 36 year old, former waif turned TopShop diva seemed to go from new mom to silver fox overnight. (Sorry ladies, could not find an uncopyrighted photo of her recent style change, but you can see it here). But her grey locks were not the result of stress brought on by motherhood (although that would be very believable!), but rather an unintended, yet sassy new look brought about from not washing your hair – eeww!

According to the Times online: 

Moss hadn’t taken the unpretentious route — she’d just forgotten to wash her hair. Grey is a dry-shampoo addict’s curse, so essentially, the supermodel had got out of bed too late — and started a new trend.

The thought of turning grey makes most young women cringe. But seeing Kate embrace this new color – even making it sexy – gives hope to many women who are heading down the grey path. Kate’s temporary ‘do, however, was short-lived, for I hear she is now back to her old blonde self. It’s too bad really, because unlike most women her age, Kate’s doe-eyed, dewey-faced look was only enhanced by the new grey strands.

But then again, whether it’s grey hair or a paper bag, what doesn’t look good on a supermodel?


Heels or Flippers? You decide….

Want a great laugh for a Monday morning? I have just seen the funniest and most outrageous thing that I’ve seen in a long time. So, imagine you are packing for a week at the beach. You want to make sure you have just the right vacation clothes and shoes for your ultra chic look. Sandals can be very cool – yes, but you need something different this year, something that will make you stand out from the crowd. Well, here’s just the thing for you. And, not only will it help you stand out from a crowd, but it also will keep you towering over the crowd all day and night. Enter the High Tide Heel…

Photo: courtesy of National Pictures and Telegraph UK

Photo: courtesy of National Pictures and Telegraph UK

The shoe has the sassiness of a stiletto, but gives you beach practicality with it’s built-in flippers. How convenient, especially when you want to make a quick exit from your blind date. Perfect for both all-day beach wear and for an evening stroll along the pier.

But, like ocean water, it is a little murky where the idea for these babies came from. Some sources say they were designed by Belgian artist Paul Schietekat for an exhibition in 2006 (according to an article in the Telegraph). However, Australian designer, Lisa Carney, has also claimed that she designed the shoe as a joke for one of her fashion shows.

Although never intended for mass production, similar designs and styles have been hitting the catwalks for months. It remains unclear whether or not diehard fashionistas have been brave enough to wear these on the beach – high tide or not.

Unless you are uber cool or a have a weird mermaid fetish, I’m just not sure that this look is a good look. Besides, I wonder how they do actually walking in sand – wouldn’t they sink? 

No thanks, I think I’ll pass on this Belgian beauty, it’s a little too flippn’ wacky (and tacky) for me.


A Midsummer's Night and An Early Morning

Summer Solstice – It is a time when pagan, druids, Christians, and many other religions celebrate the longest day of the year. In Latin, Soltice is derived from sol – meaning sun – and sistere – which means to stand still, hence the longest day of the year. For modern pagans, the Summer Solstice is a spiritual holiday, celebrating the marriage of heaven and earth. In the United States, Summer Solstice takes place on June 21 each year, which also marks the first day of summer.

Stonehenge - in all of it's glory.

Stonehenge - in all of it's glory.

In the United Kingdom, Summer Solstice is not seen as the beginning of summer, but rather as midsummer. In Celtic folklore, midsummer is the time when fairies and other mystical beings come out of hiding to dance and join in the celebrations. The famous bard himself – William Shakespeare – dramatized this legend in his play A Midsummer Night’s Dream, one of my favorite Shakespearean plays.

I was listening to my favorite classical radio station yesterday – June 21 – when I was delighted to hear Mendelssohn’s A Midsummer Night’s Dream, narrated by none other than British actress Dame Judi Dench (M from the James Bond films). This version of the story is probably my absolute favorite rendition. There’s nothing like hearing Shakespeare spoken by a true Shakespearean actress!

Celebrating Summer Solstice usually involves bonfires, music, dancing, and, many times, large festivals where people stay up all night to welcome the rise of the sun. One of the most famous festivals takes place at Stonehenge in England. I’ve been to Stonehenge and it is a very unique place, full of mystery and beauty. During the week of Summer Solstice, people travel from all over the world to Stonehenge for many believe it is a sacred place, grounded in druid religion, but shrouded in Arthurian legend.

Although my husband and I are not pagans, each year, we try to celebrate the Summer Solstice in our own way, whether it’s taking a nighttime walk together or having dinner outside on the deck listening to classical music. This year, we combined many of these things by going to an outdoor concert, complete with dining under the sun followed by dancing under the stars.

An outdoor summer concert to celebrate Summer Solstice!

An outdoor summer concert to celebrate Summer Solstice!

It truly was a beautiful evening, but our attempt to stay out into the wee hours of the morning fell short. We ended our celebration just before 9:30 PM, much to my husband’s disappointment, and headed home. Even after leaving the celebration early, I still did not get to sleep until after 11 PM, which made for a very early morning, considering I had to be up at 5:45 AM to be at work at 7:30 AM.

Hence, no run, no yoga, and no yummy breakfast picture to show you, just a lot of dark circles under my eyes. Maybe next year, we’ll plan a little better!

Happy Summer Solstice everyone!


Vive le Beret! French Hat Gains Popularity During Recession

Bonjour everyone! What a glorious morning! After my energizing run I headed inside for a fiber-packed breakfast:

I started my day with Kashi Go Lean Crunch!

Kashi Go Lean cereal: a very high fiber way to start the day!

Had a little Kashi Go Lean Crunch – packed with 8g of fiber per cup -whoa! – with a few slices of a very ripe pear on the side. Gotta love that fiber.

YEAH FOR THE BERET!

While perusing the Internet during breakfast (I know I should really NOT multitask during breakfast, it’s so not French) I came across some very exciting news. The Telegraph, a major newspaper in Britain, recently reported that the French beret is making a comeback. Yeah! I’m so excited because I’ve always liked berets. Really, from the time I was a little girl I imagined that I was the storybook character, Madeline, sporting a yellow beret and walking around Paris with my classmates (ok, so she didn’t really wear a beret, but she was French and did wear a yellow hat that I thought was a beret).

The French beret is back in style!

The French beret is back in style!

Apparently, the French have taken it upon themselves to start the beret craze once more, but not merely as a fashion statement. According to the article, the French are wearing their berets to emphasize their French heritage: 

Following the collapse of the Anglo-Saxon economy young people are harking back to their roots, showing they’re proud to be French.

Some manufacturers are even claiming that beret sales have doubled since the start of the credit crunch.

BERET – A FRENCH STEREOTYPE

Berets are the somewhat stereotypical French accessory, historically worn by both men and women in France. I think that the mushroom-top hat became so associated with the French that it eventually became cliché and even a fashion faux pas to wear it outside of France. Even then, if you were an American wearing a beret in France, this fashion statement could been seen as a mocking gesture to French culture.

Even French men can wear a beret and look good - well, sort of....

Even French men can wear a beret and look good - well, sort of....

Like many trends of the day, berets seem to fall in and out of fashion – sometimes being worn by supermodels and other times only elderly women and diehard Francophiles. Classic film stars - Brigitte Bardot and Greta Garbo popularized berets in the 30s and beatnik poets did the same in the late 50s early 60s. Berets came back in style for a very short time in the 90s when Monica Lewinsky was pictured in one with former President Clinton – although I’m not sure how much this did to improve the beret’s reputation.

MY FIRST BERET

Still, about 10 years ago, I ventured into the Gap and actually saw a beret on display. This was the first time I had seen a beret in a very long time (outside of France in Epcot). I absolutely loved the little light brown wool beret and immediately plopped down the money to buy it. A friend who I was with thought I was crazy because berets were “really not in style”. What he meant was, berets weren’t his style – but they were and still are definitely my style. After 10 years, I still have my first beret, although I have to admit it is slightly smaller than I remember and slighlty more “worn” looking than I would like. I think it’s time for a new one!

So, thank you France for being proud to be French and wearing your berets with pride. Even if they are only back in style for a season, I am very glad that they are. Now, if I could only find a nice lightweight beret for summer!

Ciao!


The Classic Trench Coat: Not Just for French Women and Secret Agents

A French woman’s wardrobe would not be complete without a classic trench coat. Take a page out of the French woman’s style book and give your wardrobe a boost with a new classic trench coat.

A classic trench coat is a MUST for every woman's wardrobe.

A classic trench coat is a MUST for every woman's wardrobe.

For years, style editors have pointed out that French women, with their very distinct and classic style, have elevated the trench coat to its never-ending chic status. And for years, I wondered, how can millions of French women – and secret agents – be wrong? 

A WARDROBE ICON

Trench coats have become iconic among French women, rivaling berets and striped boat-neck shirts. The British have also been known to wear high quality, chic trench coats, but more out of necessity than anything. I mean, when you live in a place where rain is always in the forecast, a coat becomes part of your everyday wardrobe and who wants to wear drab coat everyday? It’s almost as if the Brits wear these fashionable trenchies in pure defiance of mother nature. They remind her that, with the right trench coat, you can be sexy and practical at the same time. 

STYLE LESSONS FROM THE TRENCHES

Although the French may have put trench coats on the map when it comes to style, what I learned about trench coats actually came from my mother. Every Christmas, my family would attend midnight mass on Christmas eve at the church where I also attended school. I remember asking my mother on several of these occasions what she intended to wear – to which she replied “I’m just going to wear my trench coat.” Now, to many, this may imply she would ONLY be wearing her trench coat. But to her, this meant that what she wore underneath really didn’t matter when she was wearing her high quality trench coat and did not plan on taking it off. How can she get away with this, I used to think. I would stress for hours on what I would wear to mass – the place to see and be seen for my middle school class – and she would waltz in wearing a plain jane outfit, covered up by her coat and navy paisley scarf. All of this time, I think I secretly envied her that, even without trying, she looked as good, if not better, than any of the mothers in the congregation. 

MY FIRST TRENCH COAT

As a young adult, I’ve always admired a nice winter coat or stylish fall jacket, but for years, I had shunned trench coats because I was not going to be just like my mother. However, in my early 20s, I was shopping with my mother before moving to the big city to take on a new job. She suggested I buy a trench coat for work. I, of course, laughed this off knowing her history with and fondness of trench coats. But after trying a few on, I realized that the trench made me look put together, and even more business-like, and very stylish. I ended up buying my first-ever basic black trench coat with my mother and have worn it for at least a decade.

FROM BLAND TO BOMBSHELL IN AN INSTANT

After many rounds at the dry cleaners, my first trench coat has started to look a bit worn and less fresh than desired. Earlier this year, I decided it was time to venture, once more, into trenches in search of a more updated version of the classic trench.

In mid-March, I purchased one of the most stylish coats I have ever owned – a strawberry-colored Gap trench coat. Although the coat came in the standard beige and navy, I decided to branch out from my typical bland and go for something a little more splashy – strawberry red. I have since considered this trench to have awesome style power beyond a normal black trench coat. I am not a flashy person by nature, but whether I am wearing jeans or a summer suit, the coat seems to draw attention wherever I go. 

I have worn the trench several times, including on business meetings and casual outings. I have received no fewer than 6 compliments on the trench in the first month of wearing it, including one from a Starbucks barista who said she remembered me because of my “fun” bright red trench coat. The biggest compliment I received was from a “higher up” at work. She said she loved my new trench and asked where I bought it. A few weeks later, she bought the same trench, but in a different color. I have to say – I still like mine better!

NOT JUST FOR SECRET AGENTS

Compliments aside, owning a colorful yet classic trench coat can even create a whole new persona – making you feel much more than your typical self. When I pair the trench with my large, bug-eye, black sunglasses and my creamy Aveda lipstick, I, somehow, feel like a Bond-girl and a popparazzi-avoiding celebrity – a la Katie Holmes or Victoria Beckham – all rolled into one. Now that’s style power!

As you can see, I was not always a fan of the trench coat. But, over the years I have come to love this timeless wardrobe piece and even consider it one of the top items every woman should have in her closet. But, whether your goal is to look like a distressed dame from a Humphrey Bogart film or simply a chic socialite, add a classic trench to your look and you’re sure to stand out from the crowd.