Charlie and Lola: An Extremely Lovely 10th Anniversary

Charlie and Lola

“I have this little sister Lola. She is small and very funny.”

– Charlie and Lola

This Fall marks the 10th anniversary since the release of Lauren Child’s book, I Will Not Ever Never Eat a Tomato. The book is just one in the best-selling series of Charlie and Lola books, chronicling the daily discoveries of two British children, 7 year old Charlie and his little sister, Lola, who is 4, going on 5.

Each day, Charlie and Lola engage in imaginary play in order to explain a variety of experiences, including losing a tooth, being sick, and being a picky eater, and all with charming British accents. Charlie, who is the practical, patient, and knowledgable older brother, often looks after his precocious, ever-inquisitive, imaginitive, and very active sister.

“Sometimes I have to keep an eye on her. This can be a hard job because Lola is busy doing lots of things all at once,” says Charlie.

Through Charlie’s guidance and creativity, Lola is able to see the world in a completely different and delightful way, learning little life lessons and changing her mind about the most basic presumptions, such as all spiders are bad, peas are terrible, and bedtime is boring. Instead, spiders become extremely interesting, peas become green drops from Greenland, and bedtime becomes more exciting when you get invited to an animal pajama party.

The books and television shows also introduce us to Charlie and Lola’s best friends, Marv and Lotta, as well as Lola’s imaginary friend, Soren Lorenson. The friends play the expected supportive character roles, but also give us a look at how the brother and sister interact outside of their own family.

Although I was well out of my childhood when Charlie and Lola first appeared in books, then later on television via the BBC, I became enamored with the duo after my children were born. I love how caring Charlie is toward Lola and how he is quick to lend a hand when she is in need of help. Likewise, I love Lola’s consistently cheerful attitude about life, interspersed with hysterical 4-year old drama – “I am really ever not so well,” says Lola when she has a cold and “I’m far too extremely busy”, she exclaims when she is playing.

After a few years of reading and watching Charlie and Lola, I find myself explaining things in Charlie and Lola terms, mashed potatoes or dumplings are now “clouds”, fancy dress shoes are a must, and pink milk is my favorite and my best. Reading their books makes me wish I was a kid again, discovering all of those little things about the world that, as an adult, I surely take for granted. I know that I can’t turn back time, so instead, I will continue to see a bit of the innocence and spontaneity of Charlie and Lola in my own children.

So, for all of the Charlie and Lola fans out there, let’s raise a glass of pink milk to Lauren Child – Thank you for bringing us two very special storybook characters and may you have an extremely lovely Happy Anniversary!

Sisters in Denim

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After I had my two children, I was very worried about losing the baby weight that I had gained during pregnancy. Luckily, by eating healthy and exercising, I was able to drop the weight in just a few weeks. In fact, after my second child, I was able to fit into my “skinny jeans” just one week after giving birth. For men, this may not seem like much of an accomplishment – after all, I had just given birth which was quite an accomplishment in its own right. However, for women, fitting into your old or skinny jeans can be a significant indicator of reaching a weight loss or fitness milestone, and not just for American women. Women all over the world use the jeans threshold as a way to manage their waistline.

In a recent survey commissioned by Kellogg’s Special K cereal, 7,500 women from all over the world were asked about their jean-wearing habits, including how they felt about their jeans, on what occasions they wear jeans, and if they use jeans to motivate them to lose weight. In all European countries survey – the UK, Ireland, Spain, Portugal, and Sweden – the majority of women in each country reported that wearing jeans makes them feel relaxed, comfortable, and confident. Furthermore, more than half of all women surveyed in each country admitted that jeans – or, more importantly, how the jeans fit – is a key indicator that one has lost or gained weight.

The survey also found that

  • 90% of women from Portugal reported wearing jeans to work –  more than any other European country in the survey
  • >50% of women own a pair of jeans that doesn’t fit, and 20 percent own jeans that are too small.
  • Of those who own “too small” jeans, nearly 60% say they are holding on to them with the hope of again fitting into them.
  • One-third of women say they have tried to lose weight for the sole purpose of again fitting into smaller jeans.
  • 62% of women in the US view dropping a jeans size as a major accomplishment

As you see, in spite of the differences American and European women may have about beauty, politics, and dating, we are all connected by a common thread – the idea that jeans and how they fit are an important part of how we feel about our health and ourselves in general.

Sisters in denim, indeed.

Is She French? Check Her Nightstand!

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How can you tell the difference between an American woman and a French woman? Aside from the accent, just look on her nightstand. If a woman has more than 3 facial creams in her bathroom or on her nightstand, she may very well be French, or at least be very in touch with her inner French girl.

When it comes to skin, French women don’t play games. In fact, French women take skin care and, more importantly, wrinkle prevention, very seriously. Although they may never admit it openly or talk about it at parties, French women invest in quality skin care products that help them look younger, more awake, and more beautiful. And they are not afraid to spend money when it comes to face time.

A recent survey by Mintel found that French women spend more on skin care products than their European neighbors. French women spend €2.2 billion (yes, billion) on skin care products, which is more than twice the amount that women in the UK spend in skin care. And within a French woman’s skin care regimen, wrinkle creams get top billing, with 2/3 of the total spending dedicated to wrinkle creams.

But French women are not the only ones concerned about wrinkles. In Italy, 60% of women use anti-wrinkle products, followed by Spain at 55%, the UK at 51%, and Germany at 49%. So, it should come to no surprise that more than 1/2 of the women in France, Italy, Spain, and the UK report fine lines and wrinkles as their top aging concerns.

Other aging concerns among European women include:

  • Dark under-eye circles
  • Sunken eyes
  • Sagging skin
  • Stretch marks

Taking a look at my own skin care products, it’s a wonder I don’t own stock in Clinique. I have a counter full of skin creams – deep wrinkle concentrate, superdefense moisturizer, age decelerator, intensive eye cream, and more. So, you may wonder – is Bistro Chic French? I’ll let my in-home Clinique counter speak for itself – afterall, a French woman never tells!

Oktoberfest: On Location in Munich!

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September may be a time for cooling temperatures around the US, but in Munich, Germany, things are just heating up for Oktoberfest! I’ve never actually been to Oktoberfest, or Germany for that matter, but have always been curious about this tradition. Do people really drink beer all night long? Do modern women really dress in old fashioned dirndl frocks for a night out with the girls? To answer my questions, I turned to Victoria Whyte from Ludus Tours/Oktoberfest Tours. Victoria is live on location in Munich for the 200th anniversary of Oktoberfest, which is predicted to be one of the biggest and craziest parties to date.

Let’s see what Victoria had to say about Munich’s Oktoberfest:

BC: What exactly is Oktoberfest?

Victoria: Known as the Largest People’s Fair in the World, Oktoberfest in Munich, Germany is Europe’s largest beer-drinking, affair drawing 6-7 million visitors each year that consume more than 6 million liters (1 million gallons) of Bavarian brews. The first Oktoberfest occured in 1810 with a horse race and fair to celebrate the marriage of Crown Prince Ludwig (who became King Ludwig I) to Therese von Saxe, after whom “Theresienwiese” (the Oktoberfest grounds) was named (known as the “Wies’n” to locals).

BC: Why do they celebrate Oktoberfest in September?

Victoria: Oktoberfest is celebrated in September because of the warmer weather.

BC: What are the popular beers/brands of beer for the event?

Victoria: The brands served at Oktoberfest -

BC: What are the traditional foods of Oktoberfest? Is it just kraut and bratwurst?

Victoria: The chicken served in the tents is the best chicken I have ever eaten! But maybe that was the 2 litres of beer! Do not miss the giant pretzels, either. Plus, you must try: Schneiders Aventinusbierbtratl (Schneider’s Beer Roast), portion Schweinshaxe (Port Knuckle), and Wiener Schnitzel, of course!

BC: Do girls really dress in dirndls?

Victoria: Yes! You’ll want to dress like a local to get the most out of your experience! Dirndl for girls, Lederhosen for guys – young and old!

BC: What do people do at Oktoberfest?

Victoria: To get the most out of the beer tents, be sure to learn the words to Ein Prosit.  When everyone in the beer tents stands on their bench and belts out the words to Ein Prosit, you will want to sing along! Ein Prosit ein Prosit gemüdlichkeit, Ein Prosit ein Prosit gemütlichkeit… einz, zwei, drei, suffa!  It means: A toast, a toast, that cosy feeling… A toast, a toast, good vibes…one, two, three chug it down!

And there you have it. Oktoberfest – a time for beer drinking, schnitzel eating, lederhosen wearing, and a whole lot of singing!

Auf Wiedersehen, darling!

For a French Woman, Less is More

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When it comes to clothes, American women tend to think that more is better, or that more expensive is better. But that is not the case with a French woman. For her, less is more, and even inexpensive items can be, in her view, priceless. For instance, an American woman may have a closet stuffed full of clothes, many of which are rarely warn because they are out of fashion, unflattering, or just don’t fit properly. Even with an abundance of clothes, somehow, these same women still insist that they don’t have a thing to wear.

In a striking contrast, a French woman would fill – not overfill – her modest closet, with only her favorite pieces. Those limited pieces are, above all, classic and flatter her figure from top to bottom. They also are versatile enough for her to mix and match and are high enough quality for her to wear over and over without looking warn or dated. By doing this, she has the rare ability to deceive everyone, especially American women, into thinking that she has an extensive wardrobe at her disposal, when really she could pack her whole wardrobe into a suitcase.

So the next time you are contemplating whether or not to buy your 3rd navy sweater – stop and ask yourself – what would a French woman do?