British Women or "Bag Ladies"

British women mean business when it comes to their handbags. A recent  survey (as reported in the Daily Mail) revealed that the average 30-year old women in Britain has an average of 21 handbags/purses, and buys a new one every three months. That’s an average of 111 handbags owned in one lifetime! 
 BAGS!
Some fashionistas are calling this Sienna Miller Syndrome, named after the starlet who is known for expensive arm candy (and much of it). It turns out, that most of our female friends across the pond use the same three purses on a regular basis. Then what do they use the other 18 for? They keep these “spares” in a reachable place, for those “just in case” times. Just in case what? Just in case you need 18 other bags to choose from, I guess.

But for British women, it’s not just the bag, but what’s in it that counts.  A separate survey found that the average British woman’s handbag and its contents are worth over $1,200, yet the handbag itself is only worth an average of $100. So, what the hell are these British bag ladies carrying that is worth so much? Let’s take a peek:

What you might find in a British woman’s handbag….

Handbag = $71.75
Wallet = $41.77
Wallet contents = $69.85
Mobile phone = $139.27
Car keys = $278.49
House keys = $348.11
Make up = $69.63
Umbrella = $13.93
Book = $5.57
Sunglasses = $139.27
Leather diary = $30.64
Notepad = $5.57
Pencil case 
and pens
= $13.94
TOTAL = $1,227.79

Similar to British women, the contents of my bag are worth considerably more than the amount of my actual bag – and that’s saying a lot considering it’s a Coach purse. Even still, the average worth of the purses in my collection is $175, more than double the worth of an average British purse. That must be why I only have seven purses in my collection. Hmmm, maybe it’s time to go purse shopping.

What’s in my purse today? Let’s see how this American girl’s bag measures up: 

Coach purse = $350
Car keys = $200
Ipod Nano = $150
Cell phone = $150
Wallet = $30
Gift cards = $40
Sunglasses = $20
Lipstick = $12
Notebook = $2
Lip balm = $2
Hand cream = $2
Hand sanitizer = $2
Pain reliever = $6
TOTAL = $996.00

Surprisingly, even with $1,200 slung on their arms, more than half of British women surveyed admitted losing their handbag one or more times. Ladies, it doesn’t matter if you have 11 or 111 purses at your disposal, each one serves a special purpose, so keep an eye on those bags, not to mention, their contents!

How does your bag and its contents measure up?

Mini-Break on a (Company) Dime

The French receive three times the amount of vacation time than Americans.

The French have three times the amount of vacation time than Americans.

At this time each year, I find myself daydreaming about taking a vacation. Maybe it’s due to the sub-zero temperatures we’ve been faced with or it could be the pile of work that seems to be growing on my desk, so much that my pile has been divided into several other piles. Either way, vacationing may be heavy on my mind, but it’s also heavy on my budget. Like many Americans, the recession is causing us to tighten our belts and forgo spending in the form of luxuries, like destination vacations.

And, even if you can afford a vacation this year, you may not be able to take one due to workload or the fact that you are given very little vacation time to begin with. This is when the thought of living and working in Europe seems very appealing. It is widely known that Europeans receive more vacation time than Americans. According to a 2007 survey by the World Tourism Organization (as reported by Pearson, Inc), the British receive an average of 5.5 weeks of vacation per year, the French receive an average of 7 weeks a year, and the Italians receive a whopping 8 weeks of vacation a year. Compare this to the 2.5 weeks of vacation Americans average each year – no wonder we’re so stressed out! 

Think you can't afford a vacation? Think again.

Think you can't afford a vacation? Think again.

Don’t have enough vacation time to take a trip or can’t afford one? Alas, do not fret. There is still a way that you can take that much needed break, or what the British call a mini-break, without using vacation time or any of your own money. For many years, I have worked in an industry where travel is required 2-3 times a year, whether it is 4 hours away or 4 states away. During this time, I have become quite good at the art of turning my business travels into mini-breaks. This is not to say that I take advantage of the companies I work for, I merely utilize every possible minute of free time to do what I don’t have time to do at home – focus on ME! Even this year, I’m headed on two business trips in early Spring and am sooo looking forward to the R&R I have planned.

If you are fortunate enough to attend a meeting or conference out-of-state or any location that requires an overnight stay, embrace the opportunity with open arms. Whether you’re stuck in your hotel for an evening, or have a whole day free from your work responsibilities, here are just a few ways that you can turn your business trip into a low-cost or even cost-free vacation:

Explore Your Destination…

  • Be a tourist for the day and spend time at a museum or attend a play or movie.
  • Walk to a local bookstore/coffee shop for a little browsing and a latte.
  • Grab a taxi and head to the local indoor or outdoor mall and window shop at a leisurely pace.
  • Attend a neighborhood festival and live it up like the locals.
  • Try out a French Bistro or go for sushi and enjoy some solitude in trendy eatery. Don’t like to eat in restaurants alone? Call ahead and ask if they have takeout, then eat in the privacy of your own room.
  • Explore the city highlights such as a local monument or lakefront park. If the area is a little sketchy, enlist the help of the hotel concierge for information on city tours or even day trips that leave from the hotel.

Explore Your Hotel and its Amenities…

  • Read that novel you’ve been wanting to for months.
  • Buy a few new magazines and read them cover to cover.
  • Give yourself a mani/pedi.
  • Grab a workout at the hotel fitness center or a swim in the pool.
  • Indulge in the hotel spa for a massage or facial.
  • Visit the lobby lounge for live music or people watching.
  • Try different makeup applications or hairstyles.
  • Take a bubble bath (provided the tub doesn’t look scary – yuck).
  • Reconnect with an old friend/relative on the phone – you’ll actually have time to chat.
  • Order room service and feel like a celebrity for an hour. Make sure it’s in the budget first. 
  • Take over the remote control and watch anything you want – an Iron Chef marathon or a classic movie. 
  • Finally, take a nap. You know you deserve one! 

Have a great idea for an employer-sponsored mini-break? Let me hear it!

For Good Sleep, Count Cheese Instead of Sheep

Vintage Cheddar: Courtesy of the British Cheese Board

Vintage Cheddar: Courtesy of the British Cheese Board

Whenever I travel to Britain, I am amazed an how many types of cheese I see in stores, restaurants, and on hotel menus. Britain actually produces more than 700 varieties of cheese – no telling how many kinds I’ve sampled. For a cheese lover like me, traveling to Britain is truly cheese heaven. I can still remember the first time I went to England and had breakfast in the hotel lounge. They served the traditional English breakfast of sausage, fried toast, tomatoes, and, what looked like, porridge. None of these things sounded appetizing to me at 6 AM after an 8-hour flight. But then the skies parted and low and behold I saw the cheese table. There must have been at least a dozen varieties ranging in color and texture. So many cheeses, so little time! The only problem was, I really couldn’t tell a swiss from a cheddar. I proceeded to sample just about every cheese on the table and loved every morsel.  

There’s no mistaking it, the British love their cheese. According to the British Cheese Board, cheese is bought in 98 percent of British households and each Britain eats an average of  5 pounds of cheese per year. Now that’s a lot of cheese!

Cheshire: Courtesy of the British Cheese Board

Cheshire: Courtesy of the British Cheese Board

But, you don’t need me or the British to tell you that cheese tastes good and that it is quite nutritious (it’s loaded with calcium and protein). Yet, it was the British who discovered that eating cheese may actually help you sleep better. A 2005 study by the British Cheese Board found that people slept better after eating a 3/4 ounce piece of cheese before they went to bed. The study also found that different cheeses will cause different types of dreams. Want to dream about a celebrity? Eat Cheddar. Fancy a dream about your childhood or an old friend? Eat Red Leicester. Or, if you want a dreamless sleep, then Cheshire cheese is for you.

I say, if cheese really does help you sleep, put me down for two blocks of white cheddar!

Do you have a British cheese story to tell?  Let me hear it!

The French Woman’s Diet: Eat Bread. Eat Cheese. Eat Chocolate. Repeat.

French Bread Loaves

French Bread Loaves

In my previous post about the French Paradox, I introduced the concept that people in France, particularly French women, seem to be able to eat whatever they want while still staying in great shape. Many books and magazine articles have focused on the phenomenon of the French Paradox and even assert that the French way of eating could be the ideal diet plan for Americans. Case in point, a study from the University of Pennsylvania reported that although the French consume more fat than Americans, only 7 percent of French adults are obese, compared with 22 percent of Americans. Now that’s food for thought!

Although “French diet” articles and books, such as The Fat Fallacy: The French Diet Secrets to Permanent Weight Lossby Will Clower and French Women Don’t Get Fatby Mireille Guiliano, cover the French style of eating in detail, I believe that the French diet really involves two main principles: what the French eat and how they eat it. For the last five years, I have tried to live by these two main principles of the French diet. Although I’ve never really needed to lose weight, I find that I am eating more delicious and satisfying foods (cheese, cream soups, and chocolate souffles) – foods that I love – without gaining weight.

Eat Bread. Eat Cheese. Eat Chocolate. Repeat.

So, what do the French eat? In short, French women (and men) eat the very best food that they can afford and they eat whatever they enjoy but in moderation. Not simple enough for you? Let’s look at this principle a little closer and see how you can apply it to your lifestyle.

The French are Foodies: Not all French people are elite chefs or food experts, but the majority of the French are food snobs, opting for quality over quantity. You may think that being a “foodie” is expensive or requires eating at posh restaurants – not so. You can be a foodie without leaving your home. Being a home-based foodie simply means that you buy the best food that you can afford and prepare your meals in the most flavorful way that you can. For instance, if you can only afford pasta and sauce for dinner, opt for an imported sauce and add your own touches, like seasoning or additional veggies, when preparing the meal. Also, choose fresh pasta, found in the refrigerated section, for a more robust pasta dish. Throw in some freshly grated parmesean cheese, a French baguette loaf, and  you’re good to go.

The French Eat Real Food:  The French are fresh food fanatics. They scoff at most prepackaged, highly processed foods (what, no frozen dinners?), and relish in seasonal fresh produce and dairy, poultry, meat, and fish, much of which are purchased daily at local farmers markets. Even breads and sweets are made or purchased fresh daily. In contrast, when it comes to consumption of processed foods, Americans take the (boxed) cake.

Fresh Produce

Fresh Produce

However, this title is not something to brag about. Research shows  that people who eat great amounts of processed food don’t get the appropriate nutrients their body needs. To compensate for a lack of nutrients, they overeat, consuming more calories than intended, and eventually gain weight in the process. Break this cycle of bad eating by taking your cues from the French. When shopping, choose the freshest foods available, whether it’s choosing fresh over canned tomatoes, or fresh over frozen meat. But, that’s not to say that all prepackaged foods are the enemy. Many canned or packaged foods, like beans, pastas, and grains, are highly nutritious, can add flavor and substance to your meals, and are definitely time-savers. However, when choosing these products, opt for  packaged foods with the fewest ingredients and with ingredients you actually recognize. In other words, become your very own food snob and be selective about what you eat. Now really, do you honestly want those 5-day old cookies in the office lunch room or would you rather pick up a freshly made cupcake or petit-four from the local bakery on your way home? My hunch is the latter.

The French Do Not Eat Diet Food: Until fairly recently, French markets and grocery stores rarely stocked what Americans would consider “diet” foods. Why? My guess is that the French have been raised to eat full-fat/full-calorie foods and never really had a need for so-called diet foods. In contrast, an estimated 80 million Americans will go on a diet each year, many consuming low-fat, low-calorie, or low-carb foods. Many researchers, including Brian Wansink, author of the book Mindless Eating: Why We Eat More Than We Think, believe this is one of the major reasons Americans actually gain weight. In the book, Wansink reports that most people think that low-fat foods have 40 percent fewer calories than regular ones, but in fact it’s only 10-30 percent less. Due to this misconception, people eat more food, and consume more calories, when they think they are eating low-fat. The takeaway message is avoid eating low-fat, low-calorie, and low-carb foods, unless you really love the taste!

The French Eat What They Love, Only Less: The French consider no food forbidden. They eat whatever they enjoy, from salty cheeses and creamy soups, to oil-based

Grocery Scale

Grocery Scale

dressings and lovely dark chocolate. This style of eating may seem overindulgent or even sinful to Americans, but the key here is portion control. The French may eat whatever they want, but they eat very small portions of high quality, delicious foods, that leave them feeling both full and satisfied. In contrast, American portion sizes are out of control. The same University of Pennsylvania study reported that a candy bar sold in Philadelphia was 41 percent larger than the same in Paris, a soft drink was 52 percent larger, a hot dog was 63 percent larger, and a carton of yogurt was 82 percent larger. So, if you want to eat like the French, eat what you love in small portions, plain and simple. Love pizza? Have a slice or two with a small green salad. Enjoy pasta with cream sauce? Savor a sensible portion. And, as the French say, Let Them Eat Cake, as long as you stop after the first (small) slice.
In a French nutshell…

Before heading to your local market or grocery store, ask yourself, “What do I really love to eat? Is it your usual sodium-filled condensed soup (with a 3-year shelf life) or low-fat crackers that could double as board game pieces? I think not. Buy what you love. Eat what you love. Eat less of what you love. Repeat. Do these things without inhibition and hum yourself a French love song all the way home.

Now that we know what the French eat, find out more about how the French eat. Hint: it’s not standing at the counter, eating ice cream over the sink!

10 Ways to Experience Britain Without Leaving Home

Great Britain is such a charming place to visit. From the narrow streets and churches of England, to the countrysides and castles of Scotland and Wales, you can find a bit of history, not to mention a pub, on just about every corner. For me, a large part of what makes Britain so appealing is the people. Like most Europeans, the Brits have great accents, are passionate about their sports teams, and can drink most Americans under the table.

British Beer: www.flickr.com/photos/18378655@N00/2375090052

British Beer

But, I also have to give them a lot of credit, they live all year round in a place where umbrellas are an essential accessory, yet most Brits I’ve met are extremely polite, accommodating, and humorous (I guess you have to be when it rains all the time).

It is both the people and the places in Britain that keep me wanting to return. And, as you can imagine, whenever I return home after a visit across the pond, I’m a bit sad because I feel so removed from British culture while in the US.
Whether you’re like me and are pining for a little more of Britain while in the US, or just want to experience life more like the British, try a few of the strategies below that will definitely leave you feeling more British than you were before:
  1. Get to know the teams and players of one of Britain’s best loved sports – football (known as soccer in the US). Once you have a grasp of who’s who, choose a favorite team and root to your hearts content. Now, check out current football schedules and start cheering!
  2. Become a master at making a proper cuppa – tea, the unofficial national drink of Britain. Take it one step further by ordering gourmet British teas from Harrods or Taylors of Harrogate.
  3. Watch popular British television shows – such as The Office from the BBC or Little Britain(similar to Saturday Night Live) for a good laugh and a look at the Brit’s dry and sarcastic sense of humor.
  4. Celebrate May Day, Boxing Day, or the Queen’s birthday (April 21), officially celebrated on the third Saturday of June.
  5. Watch a British movie like The Queen, Gosford Park, In Bruges, or V for Vendetta.
  6. Listen to classic British bands like the Beatles, Rolling Stones, U2, and The Police, and modern British stars like Lily Allen, Amy Winehouse, Leona Lewis, and Coldplay, all downloadable at Amazon British Music.
  7. Read books by British authors including Shakespeare, Charles Dickens, Jane Austen, and JK Rowling, available for borrow at most local libraries or for purchase online. Better yet, attend a local production of a Shakespeare play and experience the stories as the bard intended.
  8. Watch the Oxford & Cambridge Boat Race, which occurs every year in late March or early April.
  9. Learn to make a mean British curry from British Chef Jamie Oliver and invite your friends over for a fab dinner party.
  10. Know the difference between American and British beer, as well as the types of beer served in Britain. Enjoy a pint or two while you’re at it!

What are your favorite ways to experience Britain while in the US?